I recently watched again “The Nativity”, the TV mini series first broadcast by the BBC at Christmas 2010 but this time I watched the entire film on DVD.
I remember the series had a strong impression on me when I first viewed it and we could hardly wait for each new episode. Seeing it as a continuous story was a different experience from viewing it in episodes; I found it much more challenging and harrowing, especially the scenes in which Mary is judged and reviled both by her fellow villagers in Nazareth, and by householders and innkeepers in Bethlehem.
Tatiana Masleny and Andrew Buchan both gave brilliant performances as Mary and Joseph and I must confess John Lynch came over as a very handsome and rugged Gabriel.
Here’s a Youtube link to a beautiful and moving song by Kate Bush with clips from The Nativity film.
Seeing this very realistic re-imagining of the Nativity story again, I realised afresh how divisive the story is, for all those who engage with it, whatever they believe. To see Mary portrayed like this when she has been so revered by Catholics over the millennia with titles like Queen of Heaven and Mother of God, is certainly very challenging. And it makes me wonder again about the assertions of Christian theology, most notably the question of how God could have chosen to bring his Son into the world by causing Mary so much suffering … huge issues arise from this, and provide much material for argument and discussion. Once again this brings up the question that many have struggled with, of why Jesus could not be the son of God and also born naturally by Joseph.
I thought this portrayal of the story has the power either to strengthen and enhance the faith of the viewer or make them lose it. It all depends on the stance the viewer takes before they come to the story.
Certainly I remember the leader of our group at an Alpha course a few years ago beginning the discussion by saying he did not believe in the virgin birth.
But in this film version, we see Joseph as key. His ability to wholeheartedly believe what Mary was telling him, saved her from the judgementalism and hatred and rejection of all those around her – which, without the protection of Joseph, may even have resulted in her death before Jesus was even born.
This gives us much to reflect upon.
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I adore the BBC Nativity. One of the best ever biblical dramas. I cry my eyes out as an agonised Mary finally gives birth to her precious baby son just as the planetary conjunction lines up (what a wonderful take on the Star of Bethlehem!)
It really should NOT be challenging, though, to recognise Mary as the human, flawed, faithful Jewish teenager which she actually was, rather than the quasi-goddess figure that Mariolatory turns her into.
I’m no anti-Catholic bigot, by the way, and I think that Protestants miss out hugely by ignoring Mary as they do, as a historical over-reaction to the excesses of Marian devotion.
The Incarnation IS divisive, period. And we sanitise and prettify the biblical account of Jesus’ birth, and we whitewash the Jewishness of the Holy Family out of the picture too.